I hang out a lot at a local coffee shop called The Studio. It's a great place--coffee, the typical smattering of mixed fruit smoothies and mocha creations. But, it's also a fully functioning art studio. People come in and throw pots, slough glass and do other artsy stuff. Me, I drink bottled water, hot chocolate and cider. Not a coffee guy.
Anyway, I was gone from there for about 3 months. Just didn't hang there. I had been really busy with some school work and other stuff at church. It wasn't that I didn't want to come, I just couldn't come. When I started back, there was a warm welcome. They were glad I was there. No questions about where I'd been.
Do we do that at church? Lots of people drift in, then out, then back again. If you're like me, you start to think they are flaky, non-committal types. You wonder if they are really 'solid' in their faith. Lots of times people (I believe) disappear because they hurt and don't think they can trust fellow believers with their hurts. That's a tragedy. And that tragedy is compounded when we judge them from afar and act skeptical or offended when they return.
Something to chew on...